Episode 117: What Happens When You Get Spiritual (But Not Religious) with Anne Bokma

EPISODE 117: 

EPISODE 117: 

What Happens When You Get Spiritual (But Not Religious) with Anne Bokma

What Happens When You Get Spiritual (But Not Religious) with Anne Bokma

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Okay friends, we’re getting our woo on. And before you roll your eyes, let’s talk about that word for a sec. My guest today, award-winning journalist Anne Bokma, makes an amazing point: why do we call women’s spiritual practices “woo woo” while accepting some seriously wild stuff from organized religion as totally normal? Virgin births, anyone?

Anne is the author of My Year of Living Spiritually: From Woo Woo to Wonderful, and this conversation had me nodding, laughing, and getting misty-eyed in equal measure. I’d read her book once before, but re-reading it hit different. We get into everything: death, drugs, dating in your 60s, and what happens when you go looking for meaning without the rules of religion.

Anne shares how she left a strict Dutch church upbringing, lost connection with her family over it, and then spent a year trying every spiritual practice she could find, from meditation and gratitude journaling to witch camp, past life regression, and yes, magic mushrooms. We talk about what worked, what didn’t, and what she learned about trusting her own intuition.

This episode isn’t about becoming a crystal-carrying moon priestess (unless that’s your jam). It’s about finding a deeper sense of connection on your own terms. Whether you’ve got religious trauma, church nostalgia, or just an inner skeptic who still kinda wants to believe, Anne’s story will remind you that spirituality doesn’t have to come with a side of guilt.

WHAT’S INSIDE:

  • How Anne’s “Year of Living Spiritually” helped her heal from religious trauma and reconnect with her mom
  • The difference between religion and spirituality and why women’s wisdom has been dismissed as “woo”
  • What happened when Anne tried everything from witch camp to magic mushrooms
  • How activism (like protesting Bill Cosby’s show) can be a deeply spiritual act

What does being “spiritual” mean to you? Is it lighting candles and meditating, or is it showing up in the world with more compassion and courage? Whatever your version looks like, it’s about feeling connected and awake. That could be you. I’d love to know what practices make you feel more grounded (or more “woo”). Message me on Instagram and let’s talk about it.

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Episode 105: This Is Your Sign To Blow Up Your Life (In A Good Way) with Callie King

EPISODE 105: 

EPISODE 105: 

This Is Your Sign To Blow Up Your Life (In A Good Way) with Callie King

This Is Your Sign To Blow Up Your Life (In A Good Way) with Callie King

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Okay so… you know how you sometimes hear someone drop a sentence like, “Oh, I can’t make it that week; I’ll be racing horses across Mongolia,” and you’re like WAIT WHAT NOW? That’s basically been me for years every time my friend Callie King casually mentions her life.

So in this episode, I finally scratch that itch and go full nosy bitch mode. Because Callie is one of those people who lives so boldly and so intentionally that you kinda want to hate her, except she’s also really chill and generous and has zero ego about it. Like, this woman has lived in a Chevy Tracker with her dog, owns multiple income properties, built an adobe house in Mexico by hand, and manifested a partner straight off her dream board. And she makes it all look effortless.

But here’s the thing. None of this happened because she was born rich or “just lucky.” It’s mindset. It’s values. It’s choosing freedom over fear, again and again and again.

We talk about how to make bold, “unreasonable” choices even when your bank account says nope, how to check yourself when you’re operating from hustle-and-grind scarcity mode, and what it actually means to create a life that feels like yours.

This episode is a wake-up call, but like, the loving kind. The kind with pancakes and a puppy and a side of "You’re capable of so much more than this."

WHAT’S INSIDE:

  • How Callie built a wildly unconventional life (without a trust fund or tech-bro energy)
  • Why your mindset around money might be what’s actually keeping you stuck
  • The difference between taking action from fear vs. fun (and why it matters)
  • What it really looks like to manifest a partner (hint: she didn’t just light a candle and hope)

So, yeah. If you’ve been dreaming about selling everything, living in a treehouse, or just getting the hell out of a life that no longer fits, this might be the episode you didn’t know you needed.

Spoiler alert: You don’t need a five-year plan. You just need to start.

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Because your dream life (and your dream bod) isn’t just going to happen because you made a vision board. It takes Goals. It takes Grit. And it takes some woo-woo sh*t."

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Episode 100: The Best Episode Yet!

EPISODE 100: 

EPISODE 100: 

The Best Episode Yet!

The Best Episode Yet!

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Well hello, and welcome to the 100th episode!

It’s a milestone that apparently means I’m a real podcast now?

Seriously—this was a goal that once felt insurmountable, and yet… here we are, the view from the trapeze. Enjoy this celebration (and don’t forget to celebrate your milestones too!).

As I looked back, I wanted to hear from you—what have you loved most?

Fitness has always been a favorite around here (I mean, DUH), with fan-favorite episodes like “What to Do When You’re Fat” and “How to Get Jennifer Aniston’s Body.”

Listeners also shared love for our habit-building episodes, inching us closer to our goals with themes like sleep, digital clutter, and even cooking (I see you in your aprons, you superheroes!).

We didn’t shy away from the heavy stuff either—episodes like “Back Away from the Booze” hit home for many.

Looking back, it’s been a mix of meaningful conversations and honest, gritty moments—covering mental load, creativity, inspiration, and the challenges we all face.

We even got a little woo-woo with mindset shifts in “How to Coach Your Damn Self” and “How to Calm Your Mind.”

Thank you to everyone who’s listened, shared, or just stuck around through the ups and downs.

Don’t miss all the throwbacks, iconic moments (desk apple enters the chat), and more as we celebrate 100 episodes!

WHAT’S INSIDE:

  • A look back at fan-favorite episodes.
  • Listeners speak up and share their insight!
  • Reminders of awesome guests and heavy-hitter topics.
  • Oonagh’s view from the trapeze.

When I hit record on episode 1, 100 seemed an infinite space away…and now here I am! I loved getting a chance to hear from listeners and look back at some of your favorite episodes. Did I miss any? What do you wanna see in the next 100? Let me know on Insta!

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Join Oonagh Duncan (fitness expert and bestselling author of Healthy As F*ck/Ditch The Diet) as she examines the habits of kicking ass every day - so you can create a life of no regrets.

Because your dream life (and your dream bod) isn’t just going to happen because you made a vision board. It takes Goals. It takes Grit. And it takes some woo-woo sh*t."

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Episode 98: Creatine! Collagen! Cortisol! with Dr. Lauren Colenso-Semple

EPISODE 98: 

EPISODE 98: 

Creatine! Collagen! Cortisol! with Dr. Lauren Colenso-Semple

Creatine! Collagen! Cortisol! with Dr. Lauren Colenso-Semple

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Metabolism “broken”? Cortisol through the roof? Syncing your workouts with your menstrual cycle like it’s a lunar ritual? Let’s unpack the madness.

Welcome to the 2025 Fitness Complex—where the marketing is louder than the science and your confusion is the business model.

Lauren Colenso-Semple, certified slayer of fear-based wellness B.S., is here to cut through the collagen powders and influencer jargon and serve up some actual facts.

Keep calm and remember the six C’s: Credentials, Consensus, Conflict of Interest, Common Sense, Confirmation Bias, and Communication Style.

Still clinging to creatine? It's not a magic potion, so stop prioritizing it over your other healthy routines. 

Worried menopause is stealing your muscle? Blame aging, not your hormones. Resistance training is the only thing that fights back.

Cycle syncing? Honestly, it’s just a socially acceptable way to ghost your workout routine. And inconsistency is the real hormonal chaos.

Supplements and biohacks won’t save you. Showing up and doing the work will.

No one wants to hear they have to work harder… but sorry, that’s still the truth.

Whatever physical activity you actually like? Do that. And then do it again.

The myths, the shady sales pitches, the body-obsessed bait—tune it out.

And as Lauren wisely says… stay safe out there.

WHAT’S INSIDE:

  • Actually build muscle during menopause (before AND after).
  • The real deal on cycle syncing.
  • How to spot sciency bullshit.
  • Keep calm and remember the 6 Cs.

Feeling personally victimized by the pseudo-health industry? It's time to seek personally individualized real health and fitness plans…NOT the one-size-fits-all magical fixes. Did we bust some myths you’ve fallen for? Let me know on Insta!

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Join Oonagh Duncan (fitness expert and bestselling author of Healthy As F*ck/Ditch The Diet) as she examines the habits of kicking ass every day - so you can create a life of no regrets.

Because your dream life (and your dream bod) isn’t just going to happen because you made a vision board. It takes Goals. It takes Grit. And it takes some woo-woo sh*t."

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Episode 96: But Seriously How Do I Get Skinny (Q and A)

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EPISODE 96: 

But Seriously How Do I Get Skinny (Q and A)

But Seriously How Do I Get Skinny (Q and A)

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I saved the best for last—live Q&A from my Health as F*ck book club and all questions lead to this: How the HELL do I actually get skinny?

Meal prep doesn’t have to be a chore and the food isn't icky. I use Sundays—my rest day—to throw on a rom-com, chop some veggies, portion things out, and call it good. It’s low effort and keeps the rest of the week easy (4-day-old veggies are way better than crusty, cold pizza from the night before. Trust me).

But it's not all rigid meals; the 80/20 rule keeps me sane. Most days I’m eating what I prepped. The rest? I go with what feels good—coffee treats, dinners out, full-on indulgence. It all fits.

Water matters, but perfection doesn’t. Tap is fine (stop buying overpriced bottled water). Add lemon, fruit, or flavor powder if it helps. Bribe yourself however you can because you need a lot of it!

Movement adds up. Walks, stretches, a few squats while the kettle boils—none of it is wasted. The more you move, the better you feel. Even a little.

Future you is your best motivator. When you're dragging, picture her looking back. She’ll be glad you did something, even if it’s just five minutes (and hey squeeze in a reward for you NOW too).

This is a big one but I’ll let you in on a secret: veggies aren’t punishment. Roast them, sauce them, or mix them into stuff you like. Pre-chopped is a win, not a weakness. Make it taste good or keep it simple.

Food doesn’t need a moral label. Baked goods aren't bad. Spinach doesn’t make you superior. Eat what serves you—sometimes that’s nutrients, sometimes you just need to eat. 

Change sticks when it's small. One new habit a month, layered into something you already do. That’s how it becomes automatic—that’s how you reach the goals.

WHAT’S INSIDE:

  • The trick to eating your meal prep.
  • What water you NEED to be drinking.
  • Does food have morality?
  • The basic steps to habit stacking. 

Did I cover a question you have? Did I miss something? Have a personal anecdote on what’s working for you? I wanna hear about it. Let me know on Insta!

IMPORTANT LINKS:

ABOUT THE SHOW

Join Oonagh Duncan (fitness expert and bestselling author of Healthy As F*ck/Ditch The Diet) as she examines the habits of kicking ass every day - so you can create a life of no regrets.

Because your dream life (and your dream bod) isn’t just going to happen because you made a vision board. It takes Goals. It takes Grit. And it takes some woo-woo sh*t."

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